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This past summer we received a Saturday Story submission by 2 Learning Domestic Discipline Readers, Mike and Diane. They shared with us their story of how stress relief spankings work in their relationship, and how they help Diane cope with the stresses of her career. We all know that punishment spankings can be effective for most, but it’s also great to hear how some of the non-punishment type spankings, such as stress relief ones, can work great as well.
The following story was written by both Mike and Diane. We have not changed, manipulated, or edited any part of their submission.
[heading style=”1″]Stress Relief Spankings: By Mike and Diane[/heading]
Mike’s Story
Diane and I have been married for several years and have been practicing Domestic Discipline for close to two years. In that time Diane has been discipline spanked several times though I’ve tried to be pretty selective in terms of how often it is done. We have, however, discovered another form of spanking that has seemed quite helpful in our marriage and Diane’s career.
She is in a high-level (and high-paying!) client service position. Frankly, her salary is higher than mine and, as a side-commetary, I’d say my stepping into a HOH role has helped us in this somewhat less than traditional earning power relationship. Formal client presentations are a big part of her job and she often becomes a bit tense, stressed and sometimes “snappy” as she is getting ready for one.
One night just before a presentation late last year, she was particularly stressed and “difficult” even after several warnings from me to slow-down and watch her tongue. Finally, she said something that crossed the line and I instructed her to go to our bedroom.
She knew what that meant and whined that she had a “big day tomorrow”. I told her I knew she did and that was part of the reason she was going to receive what was “needed”. And so Diane was spanked bare-bottom over my knees in the bedroom–it was mostly discipline for her attitude, but also something that I thought would calm her for the presentation.
And I was right! As I’ll let her explain, it gave her a certain release of stress and ability to focus on the upcoming presentation. We have used it numerous times since, but the discipline aspect has diminished and the release of stress has become almost the total objective of those spankings.
Diane’s Story
Oh wow! That first stress-release spanking was far more a result of Mike’s displeasure with my attitude that night, but it produced the calmness and release that he thought it would. Though my bottom stung I suddenly found a strange peace and calmness, partly because I knew I had Mike’s care and concern.
The next day I knocked ‘em dead at the presentation! I was definitely “on” and clearly impressed the client with both my presentation and answers to questions afterward. My boss complimented me and commented how much I was in command and control of the meeting. I smiled and thought to myself–well, you should have seen me last night! Over my husband’s lap my bare bottom being spanked, I was definitely NOT in control.
Anyway, as Mike said, we have found these “release” spankings to be quite helpful whenever I’m going into a stressful situation at work. While they impart a noticeable sting in my bottom they are not harsh. Nearly always I am just spanked with Mike’s palm though occasionally a wood hairbrush is employed. I cannot say I enjoy them, but I do not fear them. And we have both found that they make me a happy and obedient wife and a successful executive at work.
As for my less frequent discipline spankings, I definitely do NOT love them! But I love the man who administers them!
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Thank you so much for sharing your story with us, Mike and Diane!
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We’ll see you tomorrow everyone!
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